Fucked-up relationships

Why are there so many unhappy women? Why are there so many fucked-up relationships, and why is the period a man and a woman can spend together in a relationship constantly decreasing? The question is, of course, banal, and the answers are in everyone's head, though completely different for each gender.

Just as all roads lead to Rome, every fork in life points towards being in a relationship, as this is dictated by life, the basis of our species' survival. Our entire lives are about finding a partner with whom we will start a family, with whom we will live our lives, and on whom we can count even when no one else counts on us.

We go to schools and educate ourselves, we look for jobs and build an existence. We go out for entertainment and pay bills, all while trying to present an image to the world where we are the good ones, the superior ones, the capable ones, the morally irreproachable ones, who can be relied upon, who can be believed, who never make mistakes, are never to blame for anything, are loyal and honest, who are not mass-produced, but are incredibly unique and irreplaceable.

Yes. A large part of our life energy, money, and time goes into building a non-existent, but damn good-looking showcase world for the world, because we know, or rather instinctively feel, that this is what is needed, yes, this is what is needed to find the most suitable partner for ourselves.

However, the problems begin precisely when this world and every member of the society living in it are built on castles in the air, where lies are the mortar, and our non-existent glitzy fancy life is the bricks. We live in a house whose walls are beautifully painted, but sooner or later strangers will enter this house, and the first stumbles, if not on the first visit, will surface after a while.

Our filtered life, our never-existent appearance on Facebook, our non-existent presentation at festivals and other social events.

The truth is, we simply don't exist. On the well-known and used platforms of the internet, we have unfortunately over-colored ourselves to such an extent that we are unable to embrace our real lives, because the contrast in many cases is so damn strong that those ivory towers we built around ourselves collapse in an instant once someone gets to know us even a little.

We perform a peacock dance, and the biggest problem is that we can't even stop. Or rather, we could, but we don't want to anymore. The life we've imagined for ourselves is too beautiful, we are too good at everything and for everyone there, and why would we be ordinary again, when in our imagined lives we can be those somebodies who are actually a damn big nobodies?

This life can be perfected living alone, and the illusion can be maintained indefinitely. Things start to turn colder when we meet someone and it turns out that the person we liked, the one we fell in love with, doesn't actually exist. The initial emotional tornadoes, that certain rosy haze, and the divine chemistry, the sexual fire within us, can still make us forget the initial wobbles, but as we progress further through the minefield of relationships and weeks and months pass, our true selves increasingly come to the surface.

The cooling of relationships, that cursed habit, the mentality of "I've got it now, so I don't have to do anything for myself or to advance in life" is becoming increasingly prevalent in everyday life, and this is where the real problems begin, which we call fundamental differences in thinking between genders.

So we've already laid the foundations for the fuck-up with our lies and by admitting them from time to time, because as the relationship between two people deepens, these hidden little tricks and weaknesses increasingly come to the surface.

The wonderful first few months of love and round-the-clock fucking are already passing, and after that certain mist gradually dissipates, what a woman wants from a man and what a man wants from life comes into play.

A woman always wants a man by her side. A strong, caring, talented, resourceful man who provides a background not only for her but also for her children. So far, so clear, and there's nothing wrong with that. Female instincts kick in most strongly at this point, and life tests the woman most when she needs to somehow keep a man she deems suitable. Anyway she can.

A woman knows exactly what she needs to do, but she also knows that these are factors that a man not only doesn't want to hear about, but absolutely doesn't want to hear about. Therefore, the woman must achieve her goal without the man suspecting anything, without him realizing that he is actually part of a process. The process that the woman wants. At this point, women become cruel and ruthless, and unfortunately, they do this without any hesitation, as their female instincts dictate it.

TO KEEP THE RIGHT MAN UNDER ALL CIRCUMSTANCES.

Women are aware of how many temptations a man faces in his life. How many little whores or desirable women run around on the streets, and then there are the 8-10 hours spent at work each day, and that by nature, a man will put his dick in anything that's not a hornet's nest, because men's instincts dictate this. Women are fully aware of this and do not want it. But why would they?

However, when women start taking precautions to protect their relationship and territory, when they start to play games and get jealous, often completely without reason, they inevitably trigger processes that lead to the complete ruin of their relationship.

Because what exactly is this about?

THE MAN MUST BE SEPARATED FROM ALL LIFE SITUATIONS, CIRCUMSTANCES, AND PEOPLE THAT POSE A THREAT TO THE SECURITY OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP.

A woman knows exactly how to manipulate, what to say and do so that after a while the man does, thinks, and feels what is most suitable for the woman. To repeat the same thing multiple times, to drum a certain topic into him endlessly, or to just add a word at the end of a sentence that is likely to stick in the man's head because it was the last thing he heard. This works in women's minds and is a completely natural process, but it is at this point that two people stop being equal partners, because where someone is controlled and manipulated, where we impose our will on the other party without them being aware of it, the relationship system based on fundamental honesty ceases to exist. Women expect honesty and open cards from men, while they themselves do not adhere to this at all and never lay their cards out to their partner. Of course, they expect this, because if they know all the factors, they also see the playing field and adjust their strategy accordingly.

So what should a woman do first?

SHE MUST BREAK THE MAN.

What is a woman's most effective weapon for this? Firstly, making him feel guilty; secondly, convincing the man that his way of thinking about life is wrong, and if he continues to think this way and doesn't change, then he is a bad person.

A woman needs to sow doubt in the man. Everything starts here.

Who is that woman? Why didn't you call me back? But you promised/we discussed it, you really don't remember, is your word worth so little? And finally, the trump card, the divine nothing, that certain word "nothing," which is the ultimate embodiment of all female being and power.

• What's wrong? Nothing.
• But what's the problem? If you don't know it yourself, then let's just drop it.

To make the man insecure, to make him believe that he is a bad person, a liar, a man who doesn't keep his word, a scumbag, an inattentive, insensitive asshole.

And I thought you were different, and such offhand remarks, and then if all else fails, comes the crying, so men can see what pain we cause them with our behavior, even though he loves us and does everything for us, but we are rotten scumbags, human filth.

This. This always works, and let's admit it, it works perfectly, because what happens then? The man becomes insecure. His guilt grows, but it's a good thing it grows, because that's the women's primary goal: to make the man feel guilty and to CHANGE. A woman always wants the man to change, regardless of whether that man needs to change or not. The goal is for the woman to mold the man into what is suitable for her, and with which she can minimize the chance of that man leaving her for another woman.

But why does this strategy work? Why have women been using it ruthlessly for centuries, consciously or unconsciously? It works because the more the man feels guilty and like a bad person next to the angelic, flawless female creation, the more he loses his self-confidence and his belief in his own values. Make no mistake, I'm not talking about bad people here. I'm talking about completely normal, rational men who live by correct values, but if someone is constantly confused and held accountable for things that either didn't happen or only exist in the female brain, ergo are invisible to the man, then the man becomes insecure after a while, and because he loves the woman, he wants to please her. Because, after all, every man wants to make the woman he loves, the one he chose as his partner, happy.

To do everything for the woman we love, and preferably to have as little hassle as possible, and especially not to mess around over petty, crappy things. That's all a man wants, but for a woman, this isn't a suitable state. Because if there's no hassle, there's no guilt-tripping; if there's no hassle, the man can't be bitched at, he can't be blamed and confronted with what a piece of shit he actually is. If he's not, well, we'll make him one.

In short, a woman has one mission. She must break the man's spirit. She must take away everything that makes him feel like a man, because if a man doesn't feel like a man, he won't have the desire to flirt with other women. And women know this exactly. No woman wants a man who has no self-confidence, who is not assertive, from whom no spirit or individuality comes whatsoever.

This tactic works perfectly for women, but there's another side to the coin, and that's the man's side. Because what does the man feel after all this, and especially if he receives it daily for months, or worse, years?

CASTRATION.

Men are indeed castrated, because the woman kills everything in them that makes a man feel like a man. Women kill precisely the masculine energy in men during a relationship that they used to attract them in the first place.

The man is settled, sits at home like a dick, goes nowhere, builds nothing, does nothing, doesn't even meet his friends. Because by this time, the woman has successfully separated him from his friends, and of course, she didn't do this by accident, because the woman knows exactly that his friends see this process crystal clear from the outside, and women absolutely do not want the man she has by then successfully tamed to hear from his friends, "Dude. Wake up, you've become a whipped nobody, what's wrong with you, you're unrecognizable."

Removing friends is key for the woman. Because if the guys meet, what will they do? They'll go out and party, and what will they do there? Well, what? Nothing, damn it, because he loves his woman, but women don't believe this, and they don't even want to give any chance for anything to happen there due to alcohol or the encouragement of friends. For a woman, other women are the biggest enemies, and directly after them are the friends who see through this process. When do you think I last spoke to those friends of mine who have since gotten married or are in long-term relationships?

No friends, no masculine values anymore, nothing but guilt, jealousy, blame, a broken man on the couch, but that's not enough for women. The next nail in the coffin of relationships and their sex lives is unknowingly driven by women with their next step, when they start to "educate" the man. Don't pee in the sink, don't be messy, I asked you two days ago and you still haven't taken out the trash, don't burp, eat properly, turn down the TV, the child can't sleep, and so on.

And this is the point. Yes, this is the point where the man no longer feels like a man, but rather feels like he's living with his mother. Our mothers used to tell us these things, and if there's one thing men don't want, it's a relationship where they have to have sex with their mother instead of their once charming and sweet girlfriend.

Here we arrive at sex. The sum of the above-mentioned factors leads the relationship to the point where the man no longer wants to have sex. His desire also disappears from all the nagging, his inclination is no longer there, because by this time the woman has successfully castrated the man, and women put the final touch on the word sexuality with constant nagging, when in the man's eyes she no longer sees his partner, but his mother.

At this point, the relationship is irrevocably ruined. The woman then doesn't understand why, if they had sex every day multiple times at the beginning of the relationship, now there are months passing without any intimacy, and there isn't even a spark of sexual desire left in the man. Women, of course, collapse at this point, because if there's no sex, they feel they are no longer desirable, and if they are not desirable, their belief in their femininity also crumbles. The most beautiful thing about all this, however, is that women don't feel guilty for a moment that sex eventually converges to zero, and they don't understand what's happening.

What's happening is that women have achieved their goal. Bravo. They broke the man, and turned him into a boring, featureless, colorless, odorless piece of shit, from whom they killed all creativity, humor, imagination, desire, and generally everything that women can fall in love with in a man.

The woman won, she broke the man. He is hers, only hers. Of course, he is hers, because no woman wants such a man. The only problem is that in this state, even the woman doesn't want this man anymore, because she can't look up to him, she can't respect him, she can't respect anything in him anymore, because she has been hammering into the man for so long that he is bad, messy, wrong, etc., that she also sees him that way. She molded him into something she doesn't want to see, but she had to mold him that way to keep him by her side. If a woman can't respect a man, that's a very big problem, and she can't, and if we add to this that she can't even properly screw the woman anymore, and that only every 2-3 weeks, then in the woman's eyes, he is no longer even a man.

And the circle is closed.

1-2-6-15 years have passed, depending on how long it took each woman to reach this state, and the relationship ends, if they haven't sedated each other so much by then that they don't even have the strength to crawl out of this cesspool disguised as a relationship.

That's why there are so many unhappy women, that's why there are so many fucked-up relationships, and that's why there are so many soft-dicked, insignificant, little prick men who are home by 9 PM at the latest.

By now, we have reached a point where women are strong and self-aware enough to shape our society in this world with increasing effectiveness. Everywhere you hear that men become inferior scraps as years pass, and there are fewer and fewer men who captivate with their confidence, lead with their personality, create security with their talent, and, not so rarely, really knock a woman against the wall with their masculinity, so she can truly feel like a woman. Every man has this ability, but then they start living in relationships.

Women are clearly responsible for the disappearance of men and masculinity, but this process is not so spectacular, because it takes place in apartments, family houses, rented accommodations, on the way to Lake Balaton in the car, hidden from public view. Exactly as we are used to from women. Imperceptibly, just in the background, because, you know, the woman is the neck, they basically decide everything.