Dreams. Deleted!

If we strip down reality and look at the essence of life, there are two things we need to be aware of. One is what our goals are, and what sacrifices we are willing to make for them. This is the core; everything else is bullshit and glorified antics.

If we only consider the duality of goals and sacrifices, even from these two alone, we can easily determine whether an individual is a capable, life-affirming, talented person, or simply a huge incompetent who's only role in life was to learn to flush the toilet, and whose personal development has peaked at that point.

There is a very simple formula to prove the thesis of goals and sacrifices, but first, it's worth determining which type of person each individual belongs to. To figure this out, everyone should ask themselves one question now.

What is my goal, and when it comes to action, how much of it am I capable/willing to achieve? Of course, here we shouldn't look at the future or make promises that no one cares about, but rather examine the past, because our past is what gives a real and credible picture of us. For many people, just setting the desired goal is telling. There will be those whose dreams would mean failure for someone else, but even this seems like an unattainable level for them. The magnitude of the goal to be set, which says so much about a person.

Then there's the achievement of our goals, which often looks damn good in our heads, but to achieve it, we also need to do something, and this always, in every case, tests us as human beings. With this, we have reached the chapter of making sacrifices, but I could also phrase it as how willing one is to step out of their comfort zone and move away from its boundary.

The edge of the comfort zone is a boundary, or if you prefer, a gateway to a world where the more time you spend, the more steeply your life will ascend. Life within the comfort zone is a deadly swamp, the swamp of convenience, where nothing ever happens, because who wouldn't want to laze on the couch all day, but I believe humanity's cart hasn't moved an inch forward because of it.

In the comfort zone, the words "no" and "performance" are non-existent concepts. In this zone, addictions thrive, because there is no force to stop their destruction. In this zone, there is nothing that would even minimally build our character, nothing that would advance our lives. In the comfort zone, life doesn't happen, it just passes by.

Everything you've achieved so far is because you stepped out of your comfort zone and did something that felt really bad at the time. If you haven't achieved anything, well, that's how it is, no big deal, all MLM systems are waiting for such dreamy losers, who are lured into the cave of failures with chants like "get passive income without working." MLM is precisely for that. For the fools, the talentless dreamers, the society where weakness is the president and laziness is the mayor.

This comfort zone thing has many ramifications. I want something, and what do I need to do to achieve it? Every goal leads to a path. The only question is how long this path is, and what forces line this path that you have to overcome to move forward. Do you have enough strength to overcome them, enough perseverance, enough patience to reach the end of the road, and most importantly, are you even suitable for it as a person? The answer, unfortunately, is not always yes, even if they want you to believe it, but one thing I know for sure. You need to find out if you are suitable for it. You need to discover what you are meant to do in life, and to do that, you have to step out of your comfort zone, because there simply is no other option, no other choice.

Flabelos crap, MLM scammers, and whatever other schemes and their ilk are worthless precisely because they promise progress without you having to do anything for it. Progress, however, is impossible without energy investment, suffering, slaps, sweat, and tears, and it never will be, no matter what anyone promises or invents in the future; this is not a feasible process. Many lives have been shattered just because they thought there was an easier way. Yes, many thought so. They are the miserable club of spectacularly failed people and prison inmates.

What you really need to understand is that you shouldn't constantly look for what's best, but rather for what's hardest, because that's the only way you can improve in anything. These are what strengthen you, not the insignificant human expressions that common parlance calls excuses. God, how I hate these worthless unfortunates who flee from slaps and life's failures. The dread of pain, searching with a magnifying glass for something to object to, to have a crutch for why you didn't do it today either, and daintily looking at what you didn't like or what didn't feel good. Damn it, then don't do it, but then don't have dreams either, or goals, or the bikini parades on beaches imagined for the damn summer. I understand that a few idiots think they'll have time to suffer later, but the only problem with that is you thought the same in 2007, and now it's freaking 2013, and you still haven't done jack shit.

You know, it's not easy. It's not easy to see so many messed-up lives around me, but it's even harder to witness how most people are not destined for anything in life, how incapable they are of fighting for themselves. But why not? What are they waiting for? Why is it enough? Why is nihilism enough? Why is treading water an alternative? Why do they fade, why do they dull, why don't they have that overwhelming force that makes them say, no, damn it, no, this is not enough for me. But what I find most incomprehensible is that the majority of people live without goals and accept the fact that from now on, their lives will simply slowly pass away, trickle by.

So ask yourself the question again. What is your goal, and how many sacrifices are you willing to make to fulfill your life, to fulfill yourself. You might not succeed, but it's better to be a fallen somebody than an anonymous nobody who didn't even try.