For your own sake, and the country will be enlightened
21 people. Besides me, the LifeTILT group of companies provides jobs and livelihoods for 21 people. And that made me think.
Because it's one thing that I live by my own rules and I don't give a damn about anything I don't like, but especially about the rules dictated by society, that I live as I please, and it's another thing that I am responsible for the lives and livelihoods of others. It's a great feeling to motivate thousands of people, to read their thank-you letters, but perhaps it's an even better feeling to be able to provide for the livelihoods of so many people.
LifeTILT is an idea that resonates in everyone's mind about freedom, unlimited possibilities, self-realization, anti-establishment, which in a healthy society always acts as checks and balances. I'm talking about a kind of limitation here, that we make decisions out of our free will, and despite higher authorities, if we unite and don't let ourselves be pushed around, they can't do anything to us that we don't want. Hungarian society is currently not ready for this; simply, our responsible thinking about social public affairs has not yet developed to such an extent that the current power would regard it as a real force and control. We definitely have this much catching up to do compared to the much-praised West, and unfortunately, the process is hampered by the emigration of masses of people from the country who are ready to act and want to do something for their future, for themselves.
I consider myself a person who not only strives for his own prosperity but is also guided by a sense of responsibility. To enable as many people as possible to improve their lives, to convince you that the decision is in your hands, and if you want, you can and are capable of changing everything.
Recognizing our abilities, when we realize what we are good at, what we have a talent for. These are awakenings, awakenings of a person, and the time of their arrival is not set in stone, nor can age limits be imposed on them. Nowhere is it written that one must know what to do with their life by the age of 18 or 24, because sometimes the light in one's head illuminates the path, our path, at 29 or even 37, and we must always follow it.
In my case, the light ignited at 28, and I had to face the fact that I am indeed capable of creating a community, establishing an intellectual workshop where I can move people in the right and positive direction with my writings and by helping them acquire the human values necessary for development.
Whether I want to or not, I am responsible for people's lives, both directly and indirectly. I am responsible for the people who work in my companies, and I am also responsible for those unknown people who trust and have faith in me. In a person who does not deceive them, who, if he says something, they blindly follow the direction I indicate, because they know that I want to do good for them, that my advice serves their development. Yes, this is a responsibility, which, contrary to popular belief, does not weigh on me like a ton of bricks. There was a time when I felt this way, but the development of LifeTILT demanded development from me at all levels, which is why the burden no longer oppresses me; instead, the knowledge that I may not be a role model, but I can certainly be a good example, inspires and uplifts me.
To create something out of nothing without any help, and then to place all of this on a business footing in such a way that not only do I enjoy its benefits, but it also provides existential security for others, is certainly something to emulate. It is an example that with the thoughts, conclusions, philosophy, and mindset with which I view the world, one can indeed achieve significant successes.
This life is teenage, but I can boldly say that even at twenty years old, it is terribly chaotic. Various trends and ideologies follow one another, thousands of branching thoughts, and one doesn't know which way to go, which is the right path to take to live life most fully. We try and search for our place in the world, while relentlessly copying those people who have achieved what we only long for, and we copy everything that makes us feel cooler, more accepted, more popular, and ultimately, able to become people who are respected and loved. Because that's what we all are, cursed beggars of love. We need to be recognized, our work and our life's work, no matter how grand in scale, how deep in content, or how minimally valuable.
Schools do not teach us the secret to a successful life; they only provide the basics. They equip us with fundamental information and lexical knowledge, with which everyone can start life with equal opportunities. Who and how one uses this opportunity is another question, but neither in elementary school nor in high school can they convey the most important information: what is the secret to a successful life. So, leaving schools and entering the wildest jungle called life, we must survive and continue to learn, but no longer in schools, but from people who may have started just like us, but who have already found what some are still searching for. They are searching for the meaning of life, for intangible values.
Throughout my life, I have always been most grateful to those who, in some way, helped me in this search. No one will find it for us; we must do it ourselves, but most of the time, we can be infinitely grateful if someone helps us start in the right direction.
One must copy successful people, but not exactly, because being a copy of someone is nothing more than a cheap replica, a worthless imitation. No. We must copy and, in the process, find our own voice, inject our own talent, our own thoughts, thus creating something completely unique, in which we will be the best, or if not now, then by moving heaven and earth, wading through every river, and jumping over every wall, we will achieve being the best, being the only one. If you don't want to be the best, if for you only first place is acceptable, then you will never be fifth, let alone fourteenth.
Yes. I want to defeat Norbi. I want to be the first and the only, the leader of the biggest healthy lifestyle forum and the most influential person in this field in the country, and I will do everything to make it so. If I didn't think this way, if I didn't want to be the first, then I couldn't even be second now, and everyone needs to understand this kind of thinking. Only first place is acceptable. That's why we see great athletes at the Olympics with bronze medals around their necks standing on the podium with a look on their faces that after they step off the stand, they take off the medal from their necks and practically throw it away, because it's not enough for them, they came for gold.
A lot of work and consistency, a life full of sacrifices are needed to achieve something great. Losing weight is not a great thing, it means nothing, with that you only got back to zero, and when you truly achieve things where we can talk about a successful life, then you will see how insignificant following a diet for weight loss is compared to the sacrifices and renunciations you have to make to build, to create, to produce. Not eating a cake is nothing. Do you really think that because you didn't eat what you wanted for 30 days, you proved anything? Yes. You proved that you are a little better than average, but being a little above average is nowhere near more, nor an outstanding achievement.
I dedicated my whole life to change, to steer people's thoughts in a good direction, to strengthen their belief that they are capable of great things. One swallow does not make a summer, but if people massively start believing in themselves, in the power within them, in what they are truly capable of, if they always strive for the best and do not settle for partial successes, then this society will rise and be capable of great things.
You constantly hear why this country is where it is... and here come various arguments as to why, yet we tend to forget one small detail. That we build this society and this country, we make it what it is. If the most we achieve is sticking to a diet and going to the gym a few times a week, then nothing will change, not even much in your life. You always have to think further and create, invent.
Not for money, not for a better life, but for ourselves. For our society, and the homeland will one day be illuminated.
