Slim3 The mother 30 days later...

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Day 30

I respect and love women for many reasons. One of them is motherhood, which for me commands unconditional respect. I believe that the peak of the hierarchical pyramid of female existence is motherhood, through which a woman fulfills her mission in life and, so to speak, finds her harbor. As I mentioned, being a woman is not easy, and remaining a woman as a mother is perhaps an even greater challenge. I never understood those women who completely neglect themselves after childbirth and hold childbirth and child-rearing as an insurmountable argument and explanation, like a shield in front of them. They believe that the words "child-rearing" and "childbirth" have some magical effect, and by repeating them, men will forgive them for greasy hair, disheveled appearance, and sloppy "good enough for home" clothing. Let me tell you, they don't care, especially not 2-3 years after childbirth, nobody cares, especially not men. A real woman remains a woman even as a mother, maintaining her sexual needs just like after the first dates, because her libido wasn't killed by diapers and a "baby on board" sticker, at least not in women...

Women are peculiar and utterly contradictory paradoxical beings who spend their entire lives first acquiring, then keeping, the right man for them, later, when their anaconda grip is tight enough, getting married, and finally crowning the whole process with a child. Once the shackles are on and the child is born, most women then naturally set fire to the relationship they built over the years and completely mess it up. After the child is born, men automatically start seeing the woman as a mother, which is a conquerable state in a man's psyche, but this state is certainly not helped if the woman stops being that little vixen we fell in love with at the beginning of the relationship and in the months that followed. If a man sees a mother at home for a prolonged period and not his woman, there will be serious problems, because a man would rather throw his dick into a shark-infested sea as bait than have to have sex with a woman who reminds him of his mother.

Being a woman as a mother is terribly difficult but not an impossible task, and a real woman, like everything else in life, is capable of handling it. Erika has been a mother for 14 years, and now she felt it was time, after so many years, thanks to the program, to become a woman again. To be a woman at home, in life, as a wife, as a mother, and as someone who, after long years, starts getting acquainted with a long-forgotten word: "ME". This is what the program gave back to Erika in 30 days...

Erika

Now I think these very deep emotional things came up, I took everything out of a long-hidden drawer again and had to put it in its place so that I could continue my life as a happy mother and successful woman. I still feel like a mother, not a woman. This is a very strange feeling and I am really looking forward to the day when this state balances out, when the mother and the woman will be in equal proportions in my soul.

In the last week, I reached my dream weight, could I relax from now on? I bought a pair of jeans and I feel so good in them. I felt like this and it was also accompanied by the fact that (40-50 percent of women regularly crave sweets, especially in the days leading up to menstruation. German researchers have proven that this insatiable craving for sweets in women is due to drastic hormonal fluctuations during their monthly cycle), so this kind of craving as well. I feel bloated, distended.

But let's start from the beginning... Right after the 15-day photos, a cold-shower-like emotional low point came (on my 19th, 20th, 21st day). Tamás pulled me out of this low point, and looking back, I feel very sorry for him. Then, on November 26th, I conquered my first 3.5 km ever, it felt damn good!! I was standing on the side of the track after 2.65 km and I thought, - Could I do one more lap? - and yes!! I could :) 3.54 km in 26:35 minutes. After my 3rd running week, I was able to run it, when before, even 400 m at once was a problem. Unbelievable. And I go and run and I like it, I think while doing it and I feel so free. Now I can truly write that I fell in love with running. So, in addition to the 19.47 km, another 17.74 km was added, so in November, I ran almost 34 km (33.69) in total. My last run (3.52 km) already belongs to December. And tomorrow morning, Sunday, I'll go out again, I feel like I need it!

In the meantime, I also went to an infrared sauna for therapeutic purposes, where at least I was alone with my partner. Sometimes such moments are needed, so we should repeat this weekly.

So I'm back where I started, or rather, at the end, I've reached my goal, now I have to raise the bar, my bar, in my head too, otherwise the female thoughts will come. 65 kg for Santa Claus is done!! 62 kg for Christmas? I would already have a period of stagnation, which I haven't had so far, maybe I owe it to the supplementary capsules? The vanilla shake is still in the never-gets-boring category. I love my diet, I just whine sometimes, new goal, new strength!! Well, now I'm energized. New goals are needed!! And "goals must be achieved, because it's not worth living without goals."

Finally, Erika's running evolution in the last 2 weeks. Notice the dates at the top of the image, and all this considering that a month ago, Erika was unable to run 400 meters...