Slim3 Vivien 75 days later -15.2 kg...
“It's not enough to be honest, you also have to appear honest,” these words were uttered by MDF representative Etelka Barsiné Pataki back in 1996, and this turn of phrase has truly become a legend over the years. Many things have changed since then, including the MDF party, which is now pushing up daisies (hahhh), but Barsiné's words are just as relevant today as they were during the otherwise shameful years of the regime change in the 90s. Something similar is happening with Vivien regarding her program, because Vivi is typically the kind of girl who does things honestly, but somehow no one believes her. I, for one, am convinced day after day that she's not doing the program, and if not today, then she'll surely give up tomorrow. And during our personal meetings, I always have the feeling that she doesn't give a damn about this whole thing, she's lost x kilos, and this state perfectly suits her. Yes, but this is absolutely not the case, because no matter how I look at it, proportionally, Vivien is the most successful Slim, who has lost the most kilos within 70 days, which is perfectly supported by the pictures and measurements. With Vivien, apart from the initial serious efforts, I think the fundamental problems lie in the communication of her achievements. I feel this in her almost every time I meet her, and this "something is terribly wrong with this girl" feeling can also be felt in Vivien's video interviews…
Vivi just turned 19. Her whole life is ahead of her, and although she doesn't know yet that life in general will be shitty and dense, she still needs to learn to properly communicate her successes and achievements, because if she doesn't learn this in time, she will continuously receive slaps from life that she doesn't deserve at all, and no one except her and her loved ones will be aware of this, nor will anyone care. Speaking of merits...
Vivi lost more than 15 kilos in 75 days. This simply doesn't need explaining, because it's an admirable achievement in any case, and yet... I'm sitting here in front of the computer, looking at her pictures, seeing the change, and I have the same feeling as when Zalaegerszeg beat Manchester United at home in the 93rd minute. I simply couldn't believe it.
My God, how beautiful it was...
:)))))))))))) there's no sound like that on earth....
There's no doubt the problem is with me, because Vivien is performing beautifully, but for you to understand what I'm talking about, you need to meet Vivien. BUT it's also possible that I still have this initial weight messing with me, and rebuilding trust doesn't happen overnight. Vivi is sick now, she caught some virus, probably the same one I got at New Year's, and if that's the case, then this is a massive, very nasty virus that she's going to have a hard time with, because I was also sick for at least 1 week because of it. Vivi actually asked when she could start gym workouts, because she's eager to start body sculpting. "Not above 65 kg under any circumstances," I replied, "once you're below that, we can start," but it seems very unlikely that this will happen now. Vivien will go below 65 kg by the end of her 90 days, I have no doubt about that, if for no other reason than the virus, but we won't have time for gym workouts, at least it certainly won't fit into Vivien's first lifestyle change program.
With Vivien reaching her goal, the blog's most successful venture, Slim3, comes to an end. So far, the 3 girls have lost 38 kilos in 70 days, which is a very impressive result. The last check-in for Slim3 will be in 2 weeks, and Vivien wants to be under 60 kg by then. Of course, there's no chance of that, but it's good to see that the girl is motivated and constantly setting new goals for herself, which is no longer about covering up her crappy 83-kilo body as successfully as possible, but about achieving a beautiful, shapely, truly sexy female figure.
Vivien is preparing for the first real summer of her life, which will be completely different from the previous ones...
Vivien
15 days left… that’s how much of the 90-day program I still have. It flew by so fast and it’s so strange, it’s indescribable. I was 66.3 kg this morning. In the next two weeks, I think I’ll lose another 2 kg and finish the 90 days at about 64 kilos. This isn’t the target 60 kilos, but I’m not really disheartened, because I’m now at a 15.2 kilo deficit, and that fills me with such happiness and strength that I know once this program is over, I’ll start a 70-day one and lose another 10 kilos. I’ve already planned this, and I’ll send Bence pictures of the transformation. Small observations… when we go out to party, I no longer have to stand in front of the closet for hours wondering what to wear to look relatively good. I have to pay less attention to where this or that bulges out and how much a top stretches over my stomach. I’m not saying I’m satisfied with myself, because I’m not, but I know that this program has brought me much closer to my dream figure. Even if I haven’t reached it yet, at least I don’t have to say, “starting tomorrow I’ll really start and I need to lose 26.5 kilos,” but rather I can say that I still have roughly 10 kilos to lose, but what is that compared to my +26.5 kilos of excess weight. This program gave me a taste of the lifestyle of how I should really be living. I realized how much I have to give up to lose those 2 kilos every 15 days and how many sacrifices I have to make for it. But it’s definitely worth it, and I haven’t regretted signing up for Slim3 for a second; in fact, I can say that it was one of the best decisions of my life.
Finally, I have self-confidence, I can dress much better, and everything has become so much easier that I can't even put it into words. Everything around me has changed. I'm more open to people, I'm not as shy when I have to change into my work clothes at school, and I'm in a much better mood since this significant excess weight has come off me.
The other day I went shopping because all my pants are falling off me and baggy everywhere and they look catastrophic on me. Which, of course, I'm very happy about. It was a very strange feeling. Until now, when I went to buy new pants, I always went because I had outgrown my jeans. Of course, I told my dad that I didn't have any pants because they were worn out, and I reassured myself with that sentence. But looking back, with every purchase, I had to buy bigger and bigger pants. Now it was a super feeling that I didn't have to reach for size 42 jeans on the shelves or XL tops, but that M-sized clothes fit me perfectly. It was such an uplifting feeling that I spent about 2 hours in the store and tried on all kinds of skirts, tops, and pants, because it felt so good to look in the mirror and see a completely different figure, who is me, and I know how much work goes into every single kilo lost. I can say that for the first time in my life, I can be proud of myself.
